Communing to care …….

We’ve come a long way in helping to support people with learning disabilities living in their own homes, shared tenancies and small groups in their communities. The model works and it does so largely because of the innovative risk taking on the part of providers. I know a few of these small companies and cannot overestimate the work that goes in to each package of support and each team of supporters.

We need to continue to extend and expand this model, so we need to understand the things that make it successful. Of course the leadership and culture of the organisation are key factors, especially those who really value their workforce. Robust recruitment processes, sound and thorough induction and training all play a part in creating the foundation for a safe service.

Out there in the community can be a lonely place, though.

Continuing professional development for teams in supported living environments often is self-guided and independent, as it is really difficult to create opportunities to remove a whole team from the workplace to undertake study. Neither is it appropriate to run team building or training sessions in someone’s home!

Yet one of the great drivers for retaining social care staff is a workplace that offers friendship, camaraderie and peer support. These are all hard to replicate in smaller teams. Much of the work is one to one with the tenant and the worker may only contact their peers when shifts change.

Given the scope of social media, perhaps we should be considering cross-service networks, where staff of different organisations can log in and link to share expertise, discuss challenges and find common themes. There would certainly be benefit in setting up shared learning days, where NHS, Local Authority, independent private and third sector services could send staff to link up, collaborate and commune.

Peer support is of great benefit in keeping staff motivated. Somewhere out there in the virtual community, the actual community can maybe find some common ground.

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Shhhhh

If you have ever experienced anyone having a major meltdown in front of you (or AT you – welcome to my world!) you will find yourself sometimes at a  loss as to how you should react. As you stand there, often open mouthed, usually unable to move and certainly unsure as to what to do with your hands, the person in crisis is yelling or crying or flailing about. Or biting you, spitting on you, writhing on the floor…. you know the stuff.

A wise woman once told me that the best thing to do in this situation is get really quiet. Or actually, shut up.

The last thing a person in crisis needs is to deal with a lot of verbal from people around them. So if you find yourself remonstrating (“now thats not the way we behave in public, Charlie….. we’ll never get to school if we start behaving like that, will we? …. come on now, its music today….the teacher will be wondering where you are……..”) the best thing to do is CAN IT. Because to a person in meltdown, thats just BLAH BLAH BLAH and overload.

I’m not suggesting you say nothing at all (although sometimes, a bit of silence is a good thing) Agree with those around who will be the speaker; use gentle and slow voice, with simple, basic responses. One voice. One calm set of sounds. Patience. Positivity.

This may seem silly, but if you get quieter, the person has to hush to hear what you are saying. This has worked with kids in meltdown, adults in crisis and really annoying cold callers on the phone. I swear by it.

This is not a tutorial; rather a reminder that sensory overload can come from all sorts of places and you are a controllable source of sound. You cannot hush the traffic, the weather, the noise of the air conditioning or the dog barking three doors down, indeed you probably aren’t even aware of them. But you can reduce the chaos by controlling your reactions.

Forget controlling the situation, but managing yourself will really help the person in crisis to begin to manage themselves.

 

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Giant Leap

Yesterday was a bit of a momentous day. Since late last year, when I learned that I was going to be leaving my full time job, I have been experiencing a rollercoaster ride of emotions. Some days I just want to hide in a darkened room and rock. Some days I want to thump people. Some days I am fearless and driven. Some days I just pretend nothing is wrong.

Day by day, as I edge nearer to the Last Day, I feel a mild degree of panic setting in. I have been working for nigh on 40 years, only breaking to have a couple of babies and do an OU degree.

At the same time.

You see, I don’t really do idle.

Yet, despite being amazing and talented and skilled and experienced, nobody appears to be beating down my door to give me a job. Its not like I’m not trying either. I’m becoming the scourge of recruitment agencies across the land.

People have been saying to me that consultancy is the way to go – indeed I know a few folk who have done pretty well out of that path. So could I be a consultant? How does that even work?

Yesterday I began to see that it could. And today I think it will.

So – this is a queasy start to what I hope will be a regular place to opine, where I can share my thoughts and views and hopefully some wisdom. Then when people need some help with their business, and its a care business or a health business, they will know I’m a person they can ask.

So – if you’re stuck with a problem, ASK!

 

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